January 24, 2010

So when it comes to a relationship when is enough enough!

My current has 2 kids and he let's the almost 3 year old sleep in the bed with us! She never has a bad dream, she's not sick but she is perfectly fine!
I've already been through this once with him on a night where I needed to go to work the next day! Needless to say I wasn't a happy girl the next morning with only 3 hrs of sleep!
Last night the little whiner sat in the hallway and just whimpered until He-Man (my man) got up to carry her to the bed! He didn't even try putting her back in her own bed!
Now I've been told by every mother out there "some people let their kids sleep with them and some don't but you can never make him choose between you or the kids!" I know I know, is all I could say back to them and that I never would make him choose!

So here I am asking him to choose between my life style and his which pretty much is saying me in your bed or the 3 year old!

When is enough enough! Its important for him to meet my needs isn't it? Compromise and communication is key in a relationship right? Is this ultimatum unrealistic on my part?









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